Here are three suggestions you might want to use to break the ice on this forum:

• Introduce yourself (age, location, job, hobbies, career...)
  
• Describe what explains your presence here, how have you heard aout Invocation, what is your perspective on spirituality?
  
• Write down what you are looking for in your soul mate (profile, personality, aspirations, passions ...)
  
• Suggest activities, whether it is online or in the physical world
  

Do you have any other ideas that could be very relevant to this forum?